As we celebrate Women’s History Month this March, we are inspired by the 2025 theme, "Moving Forward Together! Women Educating & Inspiring Generations." This theme celebrates the collective strength, equality, and influence of women who have dedicated their lives to education, mentorship, and leadership, shaping the minds and futures of all generations. Here at LREMC, we believe in the power of education to transform communities, and in honor of this special month, we’re spotlighting three remarkable women from our local area who have spent their lives uplifting others through teaching.
Nelia Crain – Empowering Young Minds in Pembroke, NC
Background:
Nelia Crain dedicated 30 years of her life to education, retiring after teaching at Purnell Swett High School. She holds an undergraduate degree in elementary education and a 46 master’s degree in elementary education from UNC Pembroke, as well as a master’s in counseling from Campbell University. Nelia was inspired to pursue a career in education by her mother, also a teacher, who instilled in her the importance of gaining an education that would provide financial independence and self-reliance.
Impact on the Community:
Over the course of her career, Nelia has witnessed her students achieve incredible success, with many going on to become lawyers, doctors, meteorologists, and even tribal chairperson. She finds immense joy and fulfillment in these accomplishments. Nelia is often recognized by former students, particularly during the holidays, when many return to town and express their gratitude, frequently remarking that she hasn’t changed a bit.
Quote/Message:
"I was inspired by the students and seeing when the light bulb comes on in their mind. Watching their growth throughout the year and later in life. You see them later and they thank you for what you did for them.” Nelia emphasizes the importance of education, whether it’s earning a high school diploma, a two-year degree, a four-year degree, or pursuing other paths that lead to opportunities for growth and success.
Tona Clark Jacobs – A Lifelong Advocate for Literacy and Learning
Background:
Tona Clark Jacobs dedicated 33 years of her life to education, serving in both Robeson and Hoke County school systems. She is a proud three-time graduate of UNC-Pembroke, earning degrees in elementary education (1983), a master’s in elementary education (1989), and dual master’s in school administration and supervision/curriculum (1994). Her career began with Robeson County Schools in 1985 at Deep Branch Elementary as a teacher for seven years and ended her career with Public Schools of Robeson County in 2019 as principal at Parkton School. In between that first and last year, she taught at JW Mclauchlin Elementary in Hoke County for 2 years, appointed as assistant principal at South Hoke Elementary (Hawkeye)for 3 years, principal at South Hoke Elementary (Hawkeye) for 10 years, Indian Education and K-2 Curriculum director in Hoke County for 1 year and returned to Public Schools of Robeson County as principal at Pembroke Elementary for 9 years.
Impact on the Community:
Throughout her career, Tona inspired countless students and teachers, often sharing her own story of resilience to motivate others. One lasting tradition was giving fifth-grade students a silver dollar and a challenge to return it upon high school graduation, which many did, sharing their stories of success. Her influence extended to mentoring teachers, encouraging them to pursue advanced degrees and leadership roles, which she viewed as a way to impact future generations. Tona’s achievements include being the first Native American female administrator in Hoke County Schools, a milestone celebrated with the naming of the cafeteria at Hawkeye Elementary in her honor and being gifted with an Eagle Feather by the Lumbee Tribe Chairperson, Jimmy Goins. Her contributions were recognized with numerous awards, including Principal of the Year and District 9 Administrator of the Year.
Quote/Message:
“Children don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care,” Tona often says, emphasizing the importance of compassion in education. She believes in the power of mentorship and collaboration, stating, “Education is the foundation of everything. It takes respect, communication, and teamwork to build strong, vibrant communities.”
Melissa Singler – Advocate for Lifelong Learning and Mentorship
Background:
Melissa Singler, President of Robeson Community College, has dedicated 22 years to education, committing her career to uplifting others through teaching and mentorship. Born and raised in the Buckhead tribal community of Columbus County, NC, Melissa’s journey began with significant personal challenges. After dropping out of high school at 17 due to family matters and personal circumstances, she was encouraged by her family to pursue her GED at Bladen Community College. She began her career in banking but soon discovered her passion for teaching while helping community members improve their financial literacy. This realization inspired her to continue her education at Southeastern Community College and later graduate from the University of North Carolina Wilmington, where she majored in middle grades education and earned a master’s degree in school administration. Over the years, Melissa has served as a middle school teacher, assistant principal, community college instructor, and director, marking the start of her impactful career in higher education and shaping lives at every step of her journey.
Impact on the Community:
Melissa’s story resonates deeply with students and community members alike. She frequently shares her personal experience of being a high school dropout, illustrating that overcoming adversity is achievable. Her mentorship has inspired countless individuals to reach their goals, with former students often attributing their success to her encouragement and guidance. A powerful testament to her influence came when a former middle school student reached out unexpectedly, sharing how Melissa’s story had stayed with her for over 20 years, feeling as though it mirrored her own struggles. Melissa’s ability to connect on a personal level fosters trust and inspires growth, cementing her legacy as an educator and mentor who truly transforms lives.
Quote/Message:
"Education and mentorship are some of the most powerful tools we have to help shape and strengthen our communities. If you don’t have someone you can debrief and share experiences with, your chances of success go down. Through education, we are not only transforming lives but also building a stronger, more vibrant community that uplifts everyone." Melissa believes that we learn something from everyone we meet, and through adversity, we find strength.
Let us all remember the role we can play in nurturing the growth and potential of those around us. Whether through mentorship, volunteering, or simply encouraging a young person to reach their dreams, we all can make a difference.